I hate when people stress about not fitting in. Just be yourself.

Brother is not telling family SIL's condition. I am NOT your fucking soundboard dude. YOU tell everyone. Grandpa called me crying last night because aunt told him. Stress. And, stupid mental MIL called DH. Now he's all stressed out. WTF STRESS! My stomach hurts. It's gonna be one hellova workout today.

Another job interview today. I am happy that I have a second interview with this company, but hesitant about the job itself. The person who would be my boss came across as a bitchy woman who would make my life hell. Plus, the job is a higher level position within the department, would take lots of hard work and would have tons of stress, and still only paying less than 30,000 to start with no room for upward mobility, only a raise here and there. As much as I want a job, this one is sounding worse and worse. There don't seem to be any pluses to it...

My inlaws are potheads. They aren't the successful high-functioning type either. They're the lazy, trashy, unmotivated never-going-to-amount-to-anything burnout type. They're always broke and always looking for a handout. They have a huge chip on their shoulder and they believe the world owes them something. DH took a different path and he's about ready to disown them. It would make me really happy to have these toxic losers out of our lives forever. DH wouldn't have to stress out about their constant drama and bullshit anymore.

I confessed about thinking people who immediately say degrees are useless. I'm the first person in my family to graduate from college. With an advanced degree on top of that. My parents never went to college, were business/home owners and are very proud of me. They also stressed hard work and whether it's minimum wage or more you work your ass off. I worked hard for what I have and when some bitter ass tells me it was all for nothing yeah I get upset. I start questioning their own work ethics. Unemployment sucks (been there) but it's no reason to take it out on others.

I hate tax season...as soon as January comes DH starts getting his mind on what he can do with his tax return money...money we don't have and don't know we will have till we get all the documents! I come from a family who felt best to remove as little taxes up front so you don't give the government a year long intrest free loan and so often don't get any money back or not much...he comes from a family that has always gotten a ton back every year and his planning for thousands is not working out well only leads to disapointment and stress.

Yes. I got my haircut for the first time in five months. Yes. It cost $45. Why is it that EVERY time I spend money on myself you start getting all stressed out about finances? I get it. You know I'll feel bad and that will discourage me from spending your money. I am GETTING that job this week and I'll never ask you for another f'ing thing! BET ON IT.

You keep saying "It's just a game! It's supposed to be fun, relax!". Well YOU are the one ruining it, stressing me out with your shitty tone and cutting sarcasm. You've been playing 4 years - that's 3 years and 10 months longer than I have. Yell at me again and I will not hold back, I don't care who hears it.

DH has just started a full time job after being unemployed or only work part time for the past 3 years. Suddenly he is the hardest working man on the planet and no one understands the stress he is under. Umm sweetie - I've been working 60+ hours a week for the past 3 years and trying to beg even more hours to make up the loss of your job.

I am an introvert but people just seem to want to spend time with me all of the time. My last 3 bf's proposed, the last one I accepted. Friends want to hang out everyday but I honestly only want to do lunch with 1 person once a week. I end up doing about 5 different activities a week and it stresses me out. I love you guys but I feel drained. Now off to visit a friend and then later skype another one...Still unsure why I seem to attract people this way.