DH is in counseling for anger issues. It's only been four sessions, but I'm anxious to just see a change. I went to one session and it was about us, mostly anti-climatic. (Seriously, he admitted we fight over STUPID stuff he mostly starts) Please give him some damn tools to use at home already!!!

I have never gone through so many emotions in such a short period of time. Anger, sadness, self pity, hurt, numbness. It's still unreal to me that the man I have loved and lived with for the last 3 years attacked me. We have a therapy appointment on Monday. I go between wanting to leave him and wanting to try to repair the marriage with counseling and serious help. Sometimes I feel strong and capable, sometimes I feel like a stupid, scared girl.

Abused op here. I'm leaving. I have decided that I will give him a chance to change and prove he's sorry, but on my terms. I've decided to spend the next few months traveling to see friends. He can stay and go to counseling and anger management courses. I can have time to think things through and figure out the next step. After several days of feeling frantic and confused it feels good to make a decision. And we are and will stay in separate houses until I make my decision in a few months.

We've been together for 3 years, married for a few months. He's had anger issues issues but he's never hit me. We were arguing about something inconsequential in the car and all of a sudden he was screaming and choking me. I tried to get out of the car and he slammed me back by my throat. His anger was very sudden and was totally out of proportion for the situation. I stood barefoot on the side of the road until a friend came to get me.

My husband is a bully and has anger issues. He treats me very well, and always has,l but I've started noticing how he treats others lately. It bothers me so much! I want to help him, but I don't know how.

I have been married for 22 years, I love him but don't like him. He is seriously the moodiest person I have ever met.. He is honest hard working and loves to spend time with me. The problem is his anger, he has rages through the years he has broke his hand, ripped his clothes off himself, busted my coffee table, and bulbs on christmas tree,and many more things.. He is happy one min and depressed the next, like in an hour time.. I always have a nervous stomach around him like a child. I am a stay at home mom I have no income, I have headaches everyday wondering if this will be a good day or not

I am so lost. My FI & I supposed to be getting married in Dec. We got engaged before he got deployed. Before he left he always had an anger problem(threw chairs,punch holes in walls,screaming cussing etc) I thought it was all due to preassure of getting deployed. He came back needless to say aggression is just as high. Still throwing stuff,calling me C**t,sl*T, he going to cheat on me etc. I started seeing a therapist for body image problems. But ended up discussing him--she is insisting I run and im an abusive relationship. He really is a good guy thoug--he never raised his hand.CONT BELOW

OP with crazy half-sister. Just found out she got into a physical altercation with one of her neighbors. She now has to go to court after having just got off of probation last year. She really has some serious anger issues. I know she's still reeling from so many deaths so close together in our family, but she really needs to get help.

My DH has this female friend. He once told me early on in our relationship that if we didn't work out, he'd try to get with her. Then he cheated on me with a hooker, so we nearly broke up but I was pregnant and wanted to try again. I saw an email once where she complained she hated her boyfriend and he said he didn't really love me. I confronted him, he said they were friends and he said that out of anger. They still talk and meet up. I think I am giving him the option: stop talking to her and therapy or I am outta here. BTW didn't see any of this coming, he just doesn't come off as a cheater.

Springtime is coming, O beatuful spring! Here in florida we have reason to sing! Snowbirds are flying way back to New York. We hate them, they hate us, the relationship don't work. goodbye, you asses! Farewell, you creeps! Vero Beach is ours again, and our anger sleeps.