My DH is a moron! For the past 2 years I have been asking him for a silver heart ring to use as a wedding band. He tells me to buy one myself. So I did, a cheap one but I don't like it much. I told him I wanted one again this week and last night he asks me what I want for VDay. Stupid ass man.

Ever since DH got laid off he is acting like we've still got income. Still going out to lunch with friends, still taking the car even to places that are close enough to walk. I feel like I'm the only one making sacrifices sometimes! It is so hard not to go to Starbucks to get a pissed off frapaccino.

I told DH an exact thing I wanted for my birthday when he asked...today he comes home and tells me he is going to spend that amount on something he knows is "perfect." I hope I like it as much as the thing I really wanted.

DH and I live with my father because we got into a bad situation in another state. My father has been nitpicking (read: Screaming)from day one about our job search- and now when I use conditioner in the house or eat *almost* the last of the raisin bran. told DH tonight I'd rather die than go on like this. I feel so stupid for having to be in this situation in the first place, and my dad isn't someone who you "talk" to to work things out. Thoughts?

I will always be the hands-on home improvement person in our marriage. DH is a dream come true, but whenever he has to do anything physical, he bitches the entire time. He gets a totally pissy attitude from the start, which always reminds me why I normally just do this work myself. Noted.

I cut my DH's hair myself, but he lets it get really shaggy and crazy-looking before he'll let me cut it. He looks like a psycho with his hair all cowlicked, but hey, if he doesn't mind, I'm not going to force him to sit and let me cut his hair. I don't understand how he can stand it getting that long and gross-looking.

In a perfect world I would have a 'friend' I could flirt with all the time, who gave me the sexual tingles just from his words alone...and then I'd spend all that amazing foreplay horniness on my DH. For now, that guy lives in my head.

DH commented last night how expensive I am. I have medical issues and am going to need a lot of dental work. His words hit me like a ton of bricks. He often gets mad I don't feel good enough for him, he wonders why I think like that.....because of you DH. Your quick apology after you saw my face didn't help.

Seriously, DH?? I said use the CREDIT CARD....what part of that meant DEBIT CARD to you?

Over the weekend I had the first professional massage of my life. Let's just say I was a little shocked when he was rubbing my butt! Is that normal in a massage? I didn't say anything because I didn't want to seem like a prude. And honestly, it did feel very good. I guess it just was odd to have a random guy touching my rear! I didn't tell DH.