I moved long distance because i thought this relationship is worth it. I want us to have schedules, coordination, and do things that couple does, hanging out, going to the gym together, cooking. It's saturday and i still haven't seen you since last sunday because you're busy at work. You live 15 minutes away, what's the difference than being long distance?

"I have my hands full, I have 2 kids"....I find it so irritating that people with children seem to think that just because they have kids that they should get special treatment. I have a job, a dog, a house, and still have to do the shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc. just like other people, but for some reason women who CHOOSE to be mothers feel they deserve an award for completing those tasks.

I really think he could be the one... but we've only been dating for 2 months and he wants me to start cooking his dinner every night (if he buys). DUDE! I'm your girlfriend! Not your Keeper! I have 2 kids to take care of... I don't need another person to take care of!

I totally don't get my friend's idea of a vacation. She rented this place in barbados for a few weeks,and because it was a house, she had to do her own cooking and shopping. Now she's in Italy, staying with this family and doing the same thing, but making african food, which is delicious...but In Italy you go to a restaurant and eat local cuisine. I don't get why she wants to cook and wash dishes on VACATION! The whole point of a vacation is to DO NOTHING and have everything done FOR YOU!

He has taken over my kitchen. Which is fine. I really don't like cooking. But I love eating.

i don't understand the mentality that single = lonely and miserable. don't you enjoy things other than other people? hobbies? books, movies, being creative, playing sports, travel, cooking, watching TV? there's so much to do-- i understand wanting a companion, but I DON'T get refusing to enjoy all that life consists of until you have one.

Hell ya it's almost 5 and I have been waiting for this min all day long. He is cooking me dinner and I might get lucky for the first time in months yes months. OMG OMG I really like him. Can he be the ONE?

I've spent the last week-and-a-half cooking homemade meals (not my forte), trying to coax him back into the world and out of his fog of depression/anxiety. He responded on the weekend by getting down on his knees, washing my kitchen floor, and cleaning my stove and fridge more lovingly and more thoroughly than I've ever bothered. But still no sex.

Next year for Christmas, if I'm still with bf, his mom is getting a fruitcake (cause nobody likes fruitcake), and a cookbook (because she HATES cooking) :)

He works maybe 12 hours if that a week I work 5 days a week ranging from 32-36 hours a week. He gets off and parks at his computer desk until i get off 10 hours later. I live maybe 5 blocks from my work so on my lunch break I'll come home to eat, just to save $. 8 out of 10 times he won't have anything cooked like I asked, so I'll have to waste 30 mins of my lunch cooking then I only have 15 to eat before I have leave again. It pisses me off he won't help me out just a little bit. & if I complain he just says I'm acting childish. He's the one on Facebook or playing some game & I'm Childish?