Girl, pick yourself up. Get your body back, lose that weight, get healthy, get your self-esteem back. He has told you so many times that he is the kind of person that likes to be alone. So be it. Gain YOUR life back from the sad and lonely life he has given you. You can do it, for you and your kids. Yes I know you don't want everyone to see your marriage as a failure, but it is what it is. Signed, yourself.

LOL. Some BF loony is telling me that research shows BF babies grow up to be more emotionally stable, with healthier marriages and relationships. Yeah sure. My DH (BF as a baby) is the most emotionally unstable person ever. He has NO friends, is emotionally distant from me, suffers depressions and anxiety. All reasons why our marriage is failing big time.

LOL. Some BF loony is telling me that research shows BF babies grow up to be more emotionally stable, with healthier marriages and relationships. Yeah sure. My DH (BF as a baby) is the most emotionally unstable person ever. He has NO friends, is emotionally distant from me, suffers depressions and anxiety. All reasons why our marriage is failing big time.

We're about to celebrate our 12th wedding anniversary and we've had separate rooms since about 6 months into our marriage.

My whole life I've felt like there was something out there that I was absolutely destined for. It's not my career, nor my marriage or even my children. Those are wonderful and I'm thankful that I have them and blessed beyond belief but I still feel like there's something ELSE out there for me? Anyone else? Or am I just crazy?

We've been married 4 years and he's FINALLY doing his share of the housework (well, it's not an equal share, but it's a share!) without being asked or reminded. Thank goodness. Our marriage is SO much better now. See DH? I told you you'd get more nookie if you weren't being a lazy butt all the time.

My friend keeps pushing me and my SO get married, just keeps pushing and 'why' this and 'why not' that. Then the same week tells me she is miserable in her marriage. WTF!

Your husband is gross. He is always saying nasty inaapropriate things to me and other girls at least ten years younger than him. He says sickening things like "well.you still look tight after having kids" and looking at us in lewd ways. It makes me not want to go to games without my DH. Then you gush about your awesome marriage and all the stuff he buys you and how other women are jealous...!

i hate how divorce is thrown around so easily. I need to divorce my husband because he doesn't talk to me. because he spends $ friviously. because he wont help with the kids. because he works too much. because he's bald. Go to therapy TOGETHER. read marriage books. Take a finances class. talk about boundries. Make a schedule of your time together. Turn off your cable and internet to force interaction and IMPROVE your QUALITY of life. or just walk away, whatever works best for you...

OP who has the ex that wanted to breast feed. I guess I should have said contributed to our divorce instead of led to. He made it something dirty and hounded me about it for months. And he also asked to do it while our son was doing it. I wasn't overreacting, he was being disrespectful. It happened in other parts if our marriage too. He felt my body was his and that he owned it. That's what ultimately caused our divorce. But it still felt dirty and I couldn't do it for my second child even though my new hubby is nothing like that.