5 months pregnant, worst pregnancy ever. All I've been hearing is that our sex life isn't what it was before I was pregnant. I just gave him some great sex, no not the best sex ever, but I worked thru the pain & the fact that I'm not supposed to be doing it. He falls asleep 2 seconds after without a word. I just want to be worth something to someone. Someday. At some point in my life. I don't know why I took it so personal...but now I'm crying. I just wish I could leave and raise my baby on my own. What's the point of relationships anyway?

Dare I say that my husband's deployment has been good for our sex life? Counterintuitive I know, but I've never wanted him more in our 6 years together than I do when he's gone. It's not just sex I want either- it's sex with HIM that I crave. I feel nothing for other men other than healthy fleeting attractions that soon dissipate. I makes me appreciate him so much more when he's around. While deployments do put a strain on relationships, I think that some good may come out of them. Am I crazy?

I'm the one that mentioned a crush... We continued to stay in touch. My crush has evolved into a true friendship (still crushing a bit), it turns out we are in similar places and have been helping each other work things out each others' relationships. We've even discussed our mutual attraction and decided to put it aside. He's probably the reason I am willing to give my husband the second chance he's asking for. Strange how things work sometimes.

I never go to any of my husbands work functions or hang out with his co-workers. I just don't have any desire to tag along to a world that I will never really be a part of. I think it is better this way anyhow, relationships are healthiest when each partner has their own space.

Im confessor 78045 about the wonderful guy... Yes silver he is in a relationship... with me for 5 months now. Its just that I see SSOO many confessions about aweful and sad relationships that it almost breaks my heart. Im just glad were not the "stereotypical" military couple. This man is amazing and im lucky to have found him... even though he says hes the lucky one.

I'm jealous of some peoples close relationships with their mothers. I want a mother I can get advice from and confide in :-/

My husband and I agree that having friends of the opposite sex is off limits. And we are proactive about not putting ourselves in situations that are asking for complications. We trust each other to make good decisions, and one of those is not forming close relationships with someone of the same sex. Nothing wrong with expectations and boundaries in a marriage to know where you both stand.

I just spent two hours reading these "confessions" and I'm appalled at the lack of trust in most of your relationships. Tonight my husband is spending the night in San Diego with his friends for his best friends birthday. There isn't a doubt in my mind that he will be JUST FINE. I'll be going to Stampede with my best friend for a much needed girls night. Ladies, a relationship is NOTHING without trust, ESPECIALLY relationships like we have, with men who are gone half the time.

news flash: they do not all cheat. some people are actually able to manifest healthy relationships in this life.

Starting a relationship with a military man is hard. Much different than other relationships I've had...he's very reserved emotionally, but still lets me know how he feels about me (if that makes sense!). LOL, he's just very independant.