I'm a female service member, and to me it seems so many folks are quick to judge female service members by assuming they are whores and what not. Every group of people has bad apples doesn't mean all are. And besides, let's not forget the male service members who are crappy too. So many guys here are cheating on their wives, lying to avoid them, and stocked up on porn here(deployed). Seriously every group of human beings has crappy people, let's grow up and not assume all are alike.

This whole, not giving my accsess to your online banking so I can transfer what I need to transfer instead of waiting all day for you to wake up, and then fib to me about "i didn't get paid, your friends must be lying" bit, its old and I'm done with it. And to think, you wanted me to quit my job, nope going back to full time!

My family has always been military. My grandfather, both my parents, me, my sister, my husband, cousins, etc. My brother always said he wanted more than anything to join but couldn't. Now that "Don't ask, Don't tell" is no longer in effect he doesn't talk about it anymore. Yea, just what we all thought, you never wanted to do it. You just felt like crap because you haven't served your country. It's stupid, you don't have to serve your country to be a good American but don't sit their lying to those who know you best about your "desire" to serve when you just want to play the victim.

I was having a hard time finding friends here, I only have one friend, I met her at the hospital and became good friends with her. I know her for 6 months now and my dilemma is that she confessed to me last night that she slept with my husband drunk a week ago. she told me that she seduced him when she saw him drunk of his mind. I told her thank you for been honest but I need it time to process all this. call me crazy but I think shes lying because he has cheated many times before and I think shes saying that to save my marriage by sacrificing our friendship. I think he seduced he

He could get blown up for all I care! That lying, disgusting bastard doesn't deserve to breathe the air I breathe. I wish he were dead. My daughter and I would be better off without that excuse of a human being.

I'm tired of your lying ass. keep pushing me with the lies and you will most certainly know what being alone means Not So DH!

OP here about the husband working so much. I want to thank you all for your advice. I have come to the conclusion that he is lying. I am going to finish my pharmacy tech degree and get out of this marriage. Kinda scared though

If you slut around on your deployed husband, forge documents and lie about him knowing when the date of the divorce hearing was because "you didn't want him there"...don't be mad when people call you what you are. You were my best friend. You denied everything he said that you'd said about me, and then gave me the "you have a pill problem!" Not. You don't know my health. Can't be mad when I don't believe ANYTHING you say. You don't know the truth! Now you're moving back on base and running around about how awful we are, but not everybody knows you're a lying smut. Tell the truth for once.

I am a lawyer who makes a stupid amount of money managing a family trust. My DH works for pocket money and to keep busy. His boss fired him and is contesting unemployment claims by spouting lies about DH. I have decided to spend the next year driving his lying POS boss out of business. I can file motions against him while on a coffee break. And just wait until I bring the IRS and OSHA into it.

I now have proof that he spent $730.00 more at the strip club a couple of months ago than he admits. No we could not afford that. He doesn't know I know. He is at premob and will not be coming home before going overseas. Not sure when to speak to him about it. The thing many people may not understand is that I'm more upset about him spending that money and lying to me about it than I am about what he may have used that money for.