I know the wives that are guilty of this probably don't post here. If your husband is guard and making more now then he does at home and you can't make it..you got issues. You have pawned all his belongings. I worry about this soldier everyday. I want to choke his wife for the stress she is bringing him. Also, he works with females so there will be pictures on Facebook with him standing next to one. It is called formation. Please let this deployment end soon.

I enjoy reading the OSMW page and the pictures are hilarious! It has really opened up my eyes about how I present myself, not as a representative as my husband or his work place but as a functioning member of society. Sure, the "paparazzi" aspect of it is harsh at times but I think it helps to change those that are guilty of looking like a hot mess on a daily basis.

Im a 19 yr old female Sailor. Been in the Navy about a year. At my first command, and the only friend I have is a blue falcon. I made the mistake of drinking some whiskey. I feel so guilty n just want to talk to someone about it. My best friends are on the west coast, so Im 3 hours ahead n its morning here. This is my first time drinking without a good shipmate or husband's supervision. I feel like I lost a bit of my innocence. I feel so dirty, so guilty. When I usually drink its just a glass of wine with dinner or a glass of brandy once in a blue moon. I hate this place.

Sometimes I feel guilty that I have a good life, good marriage, and well behaved kids. Not that my life is perfect because no ones is but it's good. Everyone deserves to be happy so why do I feel bad.

It's easier when he has no communication abilities and I know not to expect to hear from him. Right now he can text on his phone, but his responses are delayed (at his choice, not for a tech reason) anywhere from 5 minutes to 2 hours. So I spend my days with my phone in hand, instantly replying to him so he feels no neglect from his loving wife, then waiting, waiting, waiting... I feel guilty when the response comes at 2 am and I'm too tired to keep it going.... I just want him home.

That spam post about how "everyone" posted about Job's passing and not the servicemembers who passed that week is just annoying. It is disrespectful to the SM. Yeah our country needs to pay attention but trying to guilt ppl on. Fb is not doing anything.

I wrote a couple weeks about getting major guilt from co-workers for taking 2 weeks off when DH comes home for a 13mnth deployment. I don't know why I'm actuall shocked but I've had 3 different CW's call & ask me to come in & work for them since I'm not "actually on vacation & just staying at home with my husband". I want to slap them all silly for trying to ruin this time alone with my husband. What is wrong with people these days?

This deployment I just feel kind of blank. I miss him, but it isn't in the same end of the world way it was last time.....It makes me feel guilty, like I should miss him more. It also makes me wonder if he is going to come home and I just won't feel anything for him anymore. This sucks.

1 year ago I ran away from my abusive Navy husband. It was the hardest and best thing I ever did for myself. We're currently in the middle of a nasty divorce & Ive met someone else....we're sleeping together & even tho my husband abused me in every way possible & cheated on me from before we were married until the separation, I still feel guilty. Why can't I just have one happiness without feeling like I'm doing something horrible???? Especially since my almost ex is the devil?!?! Ugh...

I felt super guilty buying makeup brushes for $50.... I returned them.