That was a real low blow yesterday my love; it really hurt me when you said what you did. But then today you apologize in a way you never have before. We rarely fight but when you do we just go back to normal. Today you were so sweet and amazing, just wonderful. Thank you for admitting your anger was misdirected. Thank you for expressing yourself in such a beautiful way. I love you with everything I am, always and forever. Almost a decade as one!

I am beyond frustrated. My fiance who is 26--has huge anger issues. Especially right before he deployed, he would punch walls, scream at the top of his lungs and yell. His whole family, especially his mother kept telling me its ok he acts like that because he was getting deployed and scared. Now hes deployed and he still yells and screams at me. I get told now that he is in a bad place and i need to let it be. I understand he is in a bad place-but there is NO need to act like that towards me, and it is irking me how much his mom keeps telling me that its ok. Its really not and I do get scared!

WeI were arguing last night and I guess I pushed a button that pushed him over the edge and he hit me,in the face. After 18 years of marriage I can't leave, I love him. This is the first time this has ever happened. He apologized and told me he felt ashamed and would never cross that line again. What do I do? He thinks anger management classes are over the top for one incident. I'm devastated. He has always been the perfect husband, always.

Today is PTSD awareness day. I was reminded of it by some posts from the VA on Facebook. I spent some time thinking about how the changes in his personality have altered our lives the past few years. Then, 2 hours later, I get a call that he's been arrested for disorderly conduct on campus. The temper and anger are going to be with him forever. I am so scared for our future.

Neede strength to leave him. Glad were not married. I care for him so much but his anger additude brings me down so much that im not even the same woman anymore. And lately ive been thinking about someone who i went on a few dates with and had a great connection with. Hopefully i can find him again, apologize for being an idiot and not being with him, and become my old self again. Miss the happy independant woman i was.

Every one thinks of the people in the military as heros. Truth be told, I used to as well. Now since im engaged to some one in the marines, I never hated some one so much. He abuses his powers, he treats me like crap, takes his anger out on me. I will be one day confined to a wheelchair(very soon), he tells me to suck it up "cuz im not doing anything to save the world, Ill just be sitting down the rest of my life". I hate my life, and every day i wish I had the guts to leave. But so many people admire him.

I care so deeply for my boyfriend, but his anger problems bother me to the core. And he knows he has one, and he has even hurt my feelings so much several times that ive cried. He feels bad but never changes. Im afraid to be without him bc we really are amazing together, but i dont think i want to be with him any more. My heart is torn in two and so confused. Why cant he just accept the world is the way it is and he cant change it and to quit being pissed off at things he has no control over. Pulling my hair out bc of it all.

My husband is coming home soon. He will meet his 6 month old kid for the first time. I handled everything here myself (having kid, taking care of house, etc). And I'm feeling really angry lately. My period starts soon, maybe its pms. But my thoughts of suicide and anger have gotten to me a little. I'm not going to take anything out on the kid. But I catch myself thinking that I want to blow my brains out or that I don't want to see my husband at all. This has been going on for the past week since I got my paraguard inserted, but there aren't any hormones. This is confusing.

The Army kicked him out 6 months ago. The meds he's taking for the PTSD are kind of working but the anger is out of control. The littlest thing can turn him into a screaming lunatic. I feel like there is no one to turn to anymore.

There are times when I look at my husband and I feel a urge of anger and just wanna punch his lights out..but I love him deeply.