how does one trust after dh had an affair? i love him and but it hurts so much. we have spent the majority of our marriage apart and the only thing that made it all worth it was the trust we had for each other. i understand the longing for the touch of another...but acting on it?!? And i knew the way you got off the phone with me while she was at my house. So i called you backed and asked if there was something going on and you laughed at me and said no. we got orders and we were doing so much better, but after you'd wish me goodnight, you'd go and be with her.

I ran away from my abusive psychotic husband 17 months ago. After I left he admitted to me that he had been having an affair our entire relationship. With his mother. I always thought their relationship was weird but my God. After he got stationed somewhere else I've been unable to locate him. All I want is a damn divorce and the Navy isn't helping me in any way shape or form. I hate him. And I hate the Navy.

Thanks for having an affair and leaving your son and I back home in another state and asking for a divorce. I only up and left my life and moved 900 miles away for you, given you 5 years of marriage, was a great wife, and the best son ever. We're so much better off.

I am still having a hard time getting past my husbands emotional affairs I feel like things will never be the same again when i look at him I feel like I don't even know him at all it's like I'm leaving with a stranger:(

Oh boy, I became good friends with this girl in my DH unit who's married to a former Army Infantryman, DH and her deployed 3 months ago not even a full month after she deployed he started to sleep with my neighbor who's DH also deployed with my DH, now I know why hes always asking me to babysit their kid. Now hes sleeping with 2 other skanks from our street and one of them is pregnant with his child, I know this because my neighbor confessed to me her affair with him and told me about the other 2. Should I tell her what her husband is doing or should I tell my DH first?

DH, well my husband came back from his tour in Afghanistan a week ago we still haven't make love yet. His excuse is post dramatic stress from his tour and stomach pain. WTF he didn't even fire one round, his job in the Air Force is services= cook. Anyway, my best friend and I started to investigate and searched his car last night looking for love letters or clues of an affair after he passed out drunk. I found in his glove compartment antibiotics for gonorrhea and a Dr paper saying that the text result is positive for PID. I'm devastated IDK what to do, should I confront him?

Im having an emotional affair with my ex. DH is in Afghanistan. I love them both.

I am telling my husband that I'm excited to move with him to 29 palms in three weeks but I really don't want to go at all because I've been having an affair on him with the girl he cheated on me with back in high school before we were married. She's leaving for the army in a month and a half and I would rather be with her

A year ago my husband had an affair... things were getting better and then he deployed. After a few months he started lieing to me and it was usually about the girl he had the affair with so I decided to default on our mortgage. This was very childish, but I thought this would piss him off and "test" his love for me, but now he is coming home and I am 3 months behind still and am afraid to tell him. I know this is my fault completely, but I just dont know what to do anymore.

Dear Husband, I figure it's time to tell you that I am having a love affair...with food. It may be a little late now that I have sent you a never ending grocery list. You've made this pregnancy a little easier! I love you and don't know what I am going to do when you leave. You're the best!