I am going through a hard time with my mom. She is a prescription drug addict, and achohlic. In the past Month she has tried to killed herself by overdose twice. right now she is in a mental hospital/rehab. I am hoping that things get better but not sure that they will. Lately I have been getting upset because my five month old gets to skype with my mother in law and he loves it! He lights up everytime she talks to him. I really wish he could have that relationship with my mom. But if she doesnt fix herself he never will, & I,m not sure how to deal with it.

Dear New Year, I was hoping to start this New Year with less drama and no negative remarks. We decide to stay away from my monster in law. She has the courage to tell my husband that we don’t get along because it’s his fault. All the harsh and ugly things she said about me he should have never told me. WOW How about saying “I said things I apologize for.” Don’t go blame your son he has enough on his plate. He is never home and supporting our country. People will never change and always blame others. My church going mother in law is something else. Please keep her and her drama away from us.

My mother in law came to stay with me while my husband is deployed. Now I feel like I am being watched or baby sat. I rather be by myself.

I am really starting to dislike your judgmental mom. I mean really nothing I do is ever right. I will not put my son in daycare if I don't have to. Especially since we'd have to pay. When I was home I got a job and went to school like you wanted. It still didn't make you happy. When we move back, I'll hardly bring my son or myself around you. I can't stand my mother in law!

So my mother in law sent me a message yesterday to tell me i am a horrible wife and mother. She said i am horrible for not standing by my husband while he is in training. REALLY BITCH!!!He wouldn't be doing what he is doing if i weren't here for him!! So i want to go to Texas and visit family and now i'm a horrible wife and mother?? Oh and a bad mom for wanting to join the army. We both agreed on this decision! she says take me out of yours and my sons life. I say YAAAAAAAY WHOOOHOOO!! NO more lowering my self so your not threatened by me hahaha. I couldn't be happier. seriously!

How dare you, mother in law, to post on facebook that "WE lost great men" in our division, during this war when you have done NOTHING for your son! For one, 95% of those deaths had nothing to do with your son, or our unit. Since when has this been "we" for you?! In 6 years, and 3 deployments, I can count 5 letters, 6 packages and maybe two handfuls of phone calls hes made to you. You are no part in this deployment, and dont you DARE use it for sympathy to seem like the caring compassionate mother for a facebook audience! How about being that mother to your son first?!

I hate my mother in law. I want my husband to get stationed OCONUS so I don't have to see her more than once a year. I don't want to let my (future) children visit her. I want to cut her out of my life forever. ...I hate that my husband is related to her, and I think part of the reason we haven't had kids yet is because I don't want to bear children who are biologically related to the woman.

I absolutely love my mother in law. She's been alot of help emotionally for me. I'm so thankful that I have her in my life.

I get the stupidest emails and phone calls from my mother in law. My mom says to feel bad for people like her since they dont understand. But I refuse to feel bad for her- I tell her everything she needs to know but she just doesnt listen and repeats herself constantly which annoys me. This is causing me more stress than my dh being gone!

I float between loving and hating my mother in law.