I find it weird that some people think it is acceptable to cheat on their partner during the bachelor/ette party. If it wasn't ok to cheat before, why does cheating just before you get married make sense? IDK. Making excuses for cheating is weird to me. And by 'cheating' I mean behaviour of a sexual nature that your partner doesn't like you doing without him/her. "She only gave me a blow job" and "I only made out with him a little" aren't the best things to start a marriage on. Maybe I'm just too prudish. I thought not cheating was normal.

I have the BEST sex ever!!

Sigh. I just want him to get on one knee and ask me to marry him. I'm smart, funny, good looking, a great cook and I love sex (and want it all the time) He's older than me and has a kid (and a crazy ex) and has admitted I'm the best thing to happen to him. So why won't he ask? :(

Serious question...would you marry a man that, although he gets the job done sexually, he is pretty much passionless about it? A man that doesn't make you feel sexy? A man that is very talented, but still seems like he could be having sex with anyone and that would be okay, like it doesn't have to be you?

I have been with my fiance for ten years, and I don't know why. He is a really noisy eater, is inconsiderate, never picks up his feet when he walks, and slams doors and cupboards. He's always making noise, and it's irritating. He is really annoying when he touches me and likes to pinch me during sex, so I never orgasm with him, due to the pain. I have talked with him about it, and asked him to stop but he won't. He sucks. We live together and I can't afford a place on my own right now, so I've started taking Ambien earlier and earlier, to escape my horrible life. I think I hate him.

No matter how I try to make myself see it differently, sex before marriage is wrong. Probably very old fashioned these days, but it´s my own personal deep belief and I can´t change that.

I don't think sex before marriage is wrong!

I am incredibly blessed to have such a supportive DFH. When he asked me to marry him, I said, "Yes, but..." See, I had made a pledge to a friend during a tough time in her life that I wasn't going to marry until she could in our state--and unfortunately, marriage between two consenting and loving individuals of the same sex have not yet been legalized here. I was so scared he would be angry. Instead he kissed me and said if I wasn't fighting for something, I wouldn't be married. 4 yrs later we live together, and I could not care a hoot less what people think of it.

I believe that premarital sex is immoral. Most couples who live together before marriage are engaging in premarital sex; ergo, I frown upon premarital cohabitation. Plenty of people in the world today share my views, and just because you don't know anyone who admits to feeling this way doesn't mean we don't exist. In fact, most people I know who think the way I do keep it to themselves because of other people's intolerance for how we believe. I live according to my beliefs, and that's good enough for me.

My fiance has this dumb idea of waiting until our June wedding to have sex again (we haven't done it this year yet). I need sex on Valentines Day!!!