The engagement ring was supposed to be here 3 weeks ago. He emailed about it and they said it would be sent the first part of this last week. It hasnt been sent yet and they havent responded to his last email. I guess I have to pull out the bitch card and call them and find out wtf is going on. He cant call from iraq and we are both running out of patience to get it here. Arent telling the family until we get the ring... and were planning the wedding for January! Guess Im having a bridezilla moment.

I don't think I have the patience to deal with planning a large wedding. And, I have REALLY bad luck-I was sick on my 16th birthday, a year later went to my prom with 102 fever/bronchitis-on a 90 degree June day. met a guy in college whose family had a yacht- made plans to go out on the yacht, woke up that morning with a horrible cold. What will happen to me if I plan a big wedding lol? My appendix would burst?

The more you push for me to propose, the less likely it is to happen. What are you really looking for here? A party or a husband? The more you demand and expect it, the more I will demand respect and patience by not doing it. Stop with the bitchy ass comments about how we're not married yet and how you are waiting for "snowflurries in hell" and I'll be much more receptive to the idea of proposing.

I cannot. CANNOT. stand my future step-son's attitude, and the way his mother has raised him (to be a disrespectful ass to EVERYONE). Must find patience. Must. Find. Patience.

I will be 46 or 47 when I marry...for the first time!!! I want a religious ceremony, but being 45 years old now, I no longer have the patience for all the hoop jumping that is often involved.

I know that he is planning to go buy my ring next week! I didn't find out on purpose but I am so so glad I did. Waiting and wondering if he was ever going to propose was driving me up the wall. I could never take that moment away from him (and me) so I would not dream of proposing to him. My patience has paid off!

8 months to go, and I am going crazy. I wanted a year to plan and get used to the idea. Now, I wish we had decided on 6 months so it would be this winter. Guess we will test our patience. It is a virtue of love, after all!