I'm getting married soon and I recently realized I have the biggest crush on someone else! OMG. Has this happened to anyone else? Is it cold feet or something? I love my fiance. I have never cheated and do not intend to, ever. But I do feel guilty for having feelings for another person. :/

One of the only gifts I remember getting for our wedding was a $10 check from my parents' elderly friends. It was all they could afford, and I felt very guilty cashing it, but I thought they would be very insulted if I didn't. I used it towards a flatware set.

Sometimes I can't help but feel a little smug when I see everyone I know bitching about their spouses and their relationships and fighting and breaking up. Then I feel guilty. I really am lucky to have someone so wonderful.

Sometimes I wish he bought me a less expensive ring. I feel kind of guilty when looking at that diamond.

One way or another, when we work out where we're going to get married, there's going to be a shitstorm from the side that can't come (FH and I are from different countries). The guilt's already started on mine. Remind me, why did we say "no" to eloping?

He thinks he has a big penis. But really its below avrg. I tell him its just fine but I really wish it were a lot bigger. I wish it looked like the other men iv seen pictures of. It doesnt even look manly at all. I always thought size wouldnt matter but then I relized it does when you have to fake climax, cant even feel it much and have to finish off later :( Im lucky he is at least a great guy and that overides my stupid great sex penis dreams lol. But I cant help feel bad for wanting it like that and guilty for even insulting him in my mind. Okay done ranting.

I made a really good blueberry cake last night for dessert since we were having FMIL, FSIL and her boyfriend over for dinner. Everyone said my cake was good except for FMIL, she decided to let me know her cinnamon buns were much better than my cake and then guilted her kids into saying the same. Bitch.

Whether I own 5 outfits in the dictated colors or not, I think it is a little ridiculous to demand that guests dress in only your wedding colors for you wedding, and throw in the guilt trip that because it is your special day, "true" friends and family will comply. Whether it makes me a bitch or not, I think it is a little ridiculous.

Does anyone else have a problem with parentzillas? We're planning to pay for our own wedding, and have some ideas that my parents don't like, and the guilt trips that my parents are throwing at me are horrendous! Up to and including the pain my mother went through to birth me! Are you freaking serious?!

Dear friend- you're the most amazing bride ever. When I told you that my answer to being a BM was no & explained that I might be in India if my grandmother is having surgery during your Dec 2011 wedding, you surprised the heck out of me by letting me be a "maybe" BM. You included me in all the plans & didn't make me feel guilty once for making extra work or stress for you.My grandma's surgery is in Nov& I can be in your wedding, I want to do something for you. So I'm going to pay for all your hair & makeup on your wedding day & already aranged it with the salon. Enjoy your wedding day. I love