Evil sil, your wedding was green. Not even a nice shade of green at that. Your Bridesmaids looked as though they were vomited on. That big ugly ass ice sculpture of your poodle was the tackiest, ugliest thing I've ever seen. Wtf were you thinking?!

Been planning my wedding for over a year. My future SIL got engaged over New Years and decided she HAD to get married in March. She picked out the same colors for her wedding and wants to use the same reception hall AND she expects me to help her do all the planning! Uh, no thanks!!!

We smashed cakes in each others faces. I had a good friend who didn't allow cake smashing in the face bc she had read that couples who do that, end up divorced. I thought it was silly. My husband and I have been married for 9 yrs. Her marriage didn't make a year. So for her to have thought cake smashing would result in a divorce was silly.

am I weird for thinking this whole "first look happens before the ceremony starts" trend is silly. He's not supposed to see you in your dress until you're walking down the aisle toward him!

I'm glad my fiance didn't kneel when he proposed. I would've felt really silly.

Is it possible to look too plain as a bride? I hate drawing attention to myself, and although I want to wear a bridal gown, I want minimal detailing (maybe a little subtle lace?). I don't want big accessories, I don't want fancy jewellery, I don't want elaborate hair. Am I going to look silly?

When we were looking at rings, my fiance said I should have whatever I wanted and he didn't care. I wanted a silver coloured band (white gold, platinum, or palladium- ended up with white gold). Turns out he does have a preference- yellow gold. Why didn't he tell me before he bought me the ring and what on earth do we do now?! Mismatch my rings or mismatch our wedding rings?

If you want to do something unconventional for your wedding, go for it. Don't worry about boring your guests. Unless it's something really unreasonable (like insisting they spend heaps of money), don't worry about it. If they are against a pagan wedding or an interracial couple or whatever then they don't have to come. If they come and complain then they're silly and not worth your time. Just do what you love and enjoy it with those who want to be there!

If the bridesmaid dress are lavendar, what color should the shoes be? Silver, white? I was hoping to do something fun. Suggestions?

My dad didn't RSVP to my wedding, but showed up anyway and sat in the front row. I walked down the aisle by myself. At the reception, he silently shook my new husband's hand, but never said a word to either of us, talked to my ex-boyfriend the entire time, and left without saying goodbye. Fuck you too, dad.