I really don't see the problem with faking it once in a while. Sometimes I just want sex but I don't need an O, but my DH would be frustrated if I told him I didn't come.

I started having a panic attack a few weeks back. we had sex anyway and it freaked me out more. now when i try and masterbate i have a panic attack and I start spiraling into depression... shit.

I started working out again, have been watching how I eat, trying to get in bed earlier, & taking a supplement and viola my body is starting to change for the better. I'm excited enough to keep it up. Cant wait to get all the way sexy again.

I've confessed this before, but my weight loss mantra has always been "tossed, not hoisted." Works for me. I've been hoisted, and there ain't nothin' sexy about that.

I know a lot of people think Zumba is just some trend, but I hope it isn't. I love dancing, it makes an hour fly by, I burn a ton of calories, I feel sexy. I just love it.

When I was 19 I was lying on the floor at my BF's house and his friend was staring at me. When I asked him "what?" he said "I just want to look at you for a while" (BF wasn't in the room) I know it sounds creepy but it wasn't. Years later, we were both divorced and we wound up dating. Hottest sex of my life. After we split (amicably) he reconciled with his wife. I'll never forget him saying that to me, and how beautiful it made me feel. Still have the warm fuzzies for him. :)

One of my biggest motivators for working out and eating healthy is my BF He.Is.Ripped. His body is insane. He loves me as I am, but I wanna look great for him. How ridiculous would it look if a man as sexy and fit as him was walking down the street with a cow?!!

first bike ride of the season today. Beautiful sunny day, a bit cool in the shadows, the wind from the north but almost nary a cloud in the sky...boy i needed it! not a long ride but i've been going nuts with stress lately. If i didn't get out i'd kill myself and probably someone else. I think i needed it even more than sex!!!

Reason #2856 I almost never drink hard alcohol: I definitely made out with the guy who drove me home from the party. I may or may not have had sex with him. I woke up naked, alone, and there were two condoms (in their wrappers, none in the trash/anywhere else) on the floor under my clothes. Hmmmm. (Also: NO IDEA what that guy's name is.)

I have two kids under 2 right now. Lost all my baby weight yay!!! DH in the other hand gain. :( I love him but I'm not sexually attracted to him now. Over the years he gain weight now he has big belly. I feel like the worse wife ever because even when I had the extra baby weight he was so loving towards me and my body.