I'm actually up early enough to put some effort into my appearance today! Hurrah for not looking frumpy!

I'm actually up early enough to put some effort into my appearance today! Hurrah for not looking frumpy!

So many sweet, cute, funny guys out there. So little boyfriend material. Is it really too much to ask that a grown man has a job and a place of his own? Is it time to lower my standards again?

I went to my friend's daughter's second birthday party yesterday. I don't spend that much time with toddlers on a day to day basis, but MAN I didn't realize how much damn stuff you girls have to cart around every time you take your kids somewhere! I think I'll hold off having babies until they invent a way to give me a robotic third arm.

One of my "friends" is seriously the most judgmental, snooty bitches ever. She has nothing but nasty things to say about other women. I can only imagine what she says about me behind my back. I hang out with her because I feel sorry for her, since she's always whining about how all of our mutual "friends" are "busy" when she calls (when I know for a fact they're out with each other etc.). But it's wearing on me. I want to shake her and be like "If you act like a bitch, nobody will want to hang out with you! Duh!" but I know it will just cause drama. We are way too old for this shit.

And this is what happens when they stop moderating. Is it just me or is there a lot more stupid on here than usual?

I'm part Asian and part white, but fairly white-looking. My boyfriend's Indian, and has lived his entire life in New York City. He's convinced that if we go on vacation anywhere but another major city (pretty much limiting us to Boston and Philadelphia on our budget) that there are going to be a bunch of racists coming out of the woodwork to accuse him of takin their wimminz and generally causing trouble. I don't know how to get it through his head how ridiculous this is.

On going down on me, my boyfriend said: "It's kind of like sushi. Intimidating at first, but then you just put your mouth around it and it's pretty damn good."

Sometimes, I get angry with him over things he said he'd do and then didn't do. Then, I look around me and see everyone else, and realize that he's amazing, and we're good together, and at the end of the day, it doesn't matter enough to be angry over.