getting essure next week. Excited and scared at the same time.

I had essure done yesterday. i havent told my mom because i dont want to hear it.

I just had Essure done and im really happy with it. while i was reasearching it i read a lot of stories of women who claimed that they were in constant pain, had horrible periods after,bad effects on their sex life, numbness, etc. som even claimed.they were not told about the follow up xray or even that it was permenent. after reading so many stories i am beginning to think they are planted by a tubal reversal center.

Have to lose 10-15 lbs. starting adkins right now.

Ive been reading Gary Taubes books and i think he's totally on the right track.

Listening to a child scream at the grocery store. Not crying due.to unhappiness, just jumping around yelling. Mother just ignoring.the.crap out of her like its ok. So happy with my essure. I will never have to deal with that.

I met someone and I really like him and he really likes me. I'm scared.

I posted the other day about how it seems like every child has some kind of diagnosis these days. They are ADHD, autistic, allergies, depression, defiance, everything!!! Is there no such thing as normal anymore? If this is what we are producing, we should stop.

My friend met a guy last nigh and about three sentences into the conversation she is already telling him she doesn't want a relationship!!! No wonder guys think women are nuts. And women always say " I don't want to play games" omg, just have a conversation. You don't have to make major life declarations!!!

My friend met a guy last night, and about three sentences into the conversation she tells him that she is not looking for a relationship, and she's not giving him her number, but she really likes him,blah blah blah. No wonder men think women are so whacked! It's just a conversation, not a life time commitment ! She says to me "I don't want to play games". I don't think she's ever going to get far enough to worry about that!

Why oh why must I analyze things to death? I firmly believe in just going with the flow and not constantly trying to control that which I cannot, yet I'm way over thinking this one and creating a problem where one does not exist

I hate listening to my co-worker bit h about how everyone else doesn't do their job and how they do everything. Blah blah blah. I finally looked a St. Xxx the martyr and said " why do you care" just do what you have to do and stop concerning yourself with it". But oh, if they did they wouldn't have anything to bitch about now would they?

Almost all relationship books agree on one concept; do not ever chase a man. It's ok to reciprocate a mutual attraction, but if it starts to cool and you want more, let them initiate contact, plan dates and pursue you. In the mean time you are so busy leading your own full fun life you will not just be sitting around waiting for a man to "pick" you.

I've tested the theory and it is completely true; when a man is withdrawing from a relationship, the best action to take is no action. Do nothing, in fact, do less than nothing. Stop initiating text and calls, do not initiate contact, plan dates, etc. Give him space. Don't tell him you are doing this, just do it. If he mentions it, admit to nothing. You werent "doing" anything, but living your life and doing your thing. It seems that this subtle space that is created gives men perspective and a chance to really appreciate what they have with you.

We are now hitting the five month mark and its going really well. Am i suppose to know where it is going or just enjoy it?

This is really going somewhere. wow. i never ttuly believed i would be in this position. i love him and he loves me. holy shit...

I sometimes.censor myself on this site because my boyfriend reads it and would recognize it. he has never asked if ive posted and if he did i would deny it.

Marriage seems to be a really bad idea. I don't think relationships are suppose to last forever. I also think that it is almost never equal and that women suffer more than men. How many times do I read about women is bad marriages who can't leave, are stuck with kids, debt, guys who won't brush their teeth etc. It makes me want to run from relationships and live an isolated life. That's not the answer either.

We really have some kind of connection and we only just met. I'm afraid when we see each other again, he's going to want more, like a commitment. I can't do it. I'm too emotionally scarred for trust. I don't know what to do.

My friend is semi involved with a good guy friend of mine. He is making absolutely no effort whatsoever. He's not trying to get her into bed, nothing! I've given her my best advice but this is one guy that it's not going to work on. Him and I have never been more than friends, but I do get an affectionate vibe from him, but not a sexual one. And if she asks, no- I will not speak to him about your frustration with him. You are on your own.