DH and I have been going to see a counselor for over a year. One of the issues is that I get turned down when I want sex. I can't remember the last time in 15 yrs that I turned him down. I haven't said yes for almost 2 weeks and DH said his junk aches. Childish? Yup. Do I care? Nope. He finally knows what I feel like. Take THAT and your diagnosed control issues! Go ahead and flame. I don't care about that either!