My realtionship: DH hates my mom, mom hates him. Step-kids hate me and my kids, me & my kids... we are tired of being talked about & hated for no reason. (they are here every other weekend, holidays & LOTS in between). When it's just us...no mom, no step kids, it's pleasant for the most part. Can we actually make it like this?? I am stressed out most of the time & sick of the drama caused by others.