I get frustrated at my kids so easily, (touchy subject) I dont fist up and hit them, I dont slap them in the face. but i do spank them with their diaper on, never bare butt, i do grab them sternly by their arm if need be. but sometimes i just get so mad, i guess if i think i should go to a parenting class or anger management I probably need it. how do you deal? 3 kids 4 and under, i love them with all my heart of course, but being at home with them all day gets so frustrating! how many times do i need to tell my 2 y/o twins dont go in the kitchen, dont reach in the drawer, dont break the gate!