Last night a friend of a friend from college can back to town for a visit. We were part of the same group as a whole but never really one-on-one friends. He told me that I was the first person he ever told/said aloud he was gay. I remember the convo. It went something like Me-"You could have anyone in this bar" Him-" I want that guy (a man who was "out")" Me-"Oooh he is cute. Go for it!" He said that my reaction to his comment (or rather lack of) was the moment he realized it was going to be ok. :) I am VERY proud that I was there for that moment and helped in his life.