My former business partner (ended very badly a few years ago. I still run the business we started together) delivered her babay ar 7 mo two days ago. The baby girl only lived one hour. I have had many friends call "just let me know" they will attending or sending flowers to the visitation "I hope you are not mad" Why on earth would these women think that I would be upset they are showing their friend compassion!? We had our problems but I would NEVER wish or hope something terrible on her. I dont carry grudges and until today have not thought of her in a couple of years.