Ugh...I was friends with someone because we moved to the same duty station at the same time and I thought I'd give the friendship a try even though she's pretty dirty/messy and I'm not. It ends up that I should have never wasted my time with her cat pee infested house, out of control children, frozen pizza, frozen mixed vegi dinners, black molded toilets and trashiness. Soooooooo not worth my friendship. She's more than dirty, she's a jerk. At least I won't have to worry about catching salmonella poisoning from eating at her place anymore.