i need ur all the military wives' opinions: me and my bf got together right before he deployed. we were friends in high school.he found me thru myspace and he came to visit me. i write everyday and he calls whenever he can and we spend r&r together. all together we've only spent 17 days together. he asked me to marry him last week and he will be coming home in may...i have a son from a previous marriage.he says he loves him like his own...he wants to get married as soon as he comes back so we can PCS.I just need to know how many women out there were in my situation and how hard is it being a military wife?