February 07, 2012|
So proud of my DH! He got a new job as Sniper Lead this last week. He was chosen among several other guys (many who are already snipers) Very excited and proud for you honey! more
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I am only 17 years old but my boyfriend an I have been dating for two years and he is my best friend. I can't imagine what any of you are going through and truthfully I don't want to. My boyfriend has wanted to be an Army ranger his whole life because he says its what God is telling him to do. Now that were enrolling in college and he is enrolling in rotc it is starting to seem more real and upset me. I can't ask him not to go because it his dream but sometimes I can't help myself and I feel like an awful person. If anyone has any advice on what to expect it would be greatly appreciated.
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It does not matter how you put it, if you aren't the active duty military personnel then you aren't in the military. Military spouses are not in the military. I would laugh at a wife is she said because she is a doctor's wife then they are both doctors. The same falls for military spouses. If you aren't working directly for the military as a soldier, etc then you are not in the military, it is that simple. You can say all you want that you live the lifestyle, but that does not equal the job. Make your own accomplishments and full fill your dreams rather than live under the cloud of the spouse
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shareHe swears he never cheated after our 1st kid, almost did but didn't go through with it. I call bullshit but tried to move on and get over it. Now new duty station, new kid on the way, and new set of females to work with.I spend too much time now thinking about how I can support me and my kids when I leave after he does it again.
Whoo, the one day off he was supposed just got canceled because some dipshit had to go and get a DUI so he can't work the road now. Awesome. Poor guy will have worked 13 12-hour days in a row by the time he gets his next day off :( I swear, he had more free while he was deployed. Oh well, 4 day coming up and we'll get our nice little weekend get away!
There have been many times where I have had to bite my "truu confessions tongue" because I know my reply would be rude and bitchy. If I know I wouldn't say it IRL, then I don't say it on here. With some of these confessions though it's really hard.
Finally in couples counseling. My husband used the analogy, that if a injured dog is kicked, it will bite. SO, in his mind, when I upset him, he is allowed to bite, aka hurt me. The counselor spent 1/2 an hour trying to explain that with humans, both are responsible for NOT kicking, and in no instance is acceptable to be 'bite' or be hurtful... all my husband walked away from the meeting thinking was that the counselor agreed with him and he is justified in hurting me. The counselor didn't even put a dent in his understanding....
I am really considering ditching some of the "support" boards. Man.. women can be so brutal! Whatever happened to being nice or keeping your mouth shut? It is completely true that computers bring out the worse in people.
My husband just received a Navy Commendation Medal and his fit rep was rated the highest in his company for NCOs and SNCOs. I have no idea what any of it means but I guess it's a great achievement for him and I'm proud of him even though I have no clue what any of the stuff he had me read on them was about.
So Valentines day is almost here. It's sad how crazy or angry people get. My husband and I don't celebrate it cuz we don't feel we need a day to remind us to tell the person we love them or buy gifts. We decide to say I love you or buy gifts just because. Why pay extra on flowers, candy and food. People need to google v day and see why it came. I think it's cute for children but come on society. Why do people get mad cuz there spouse got them shit. Make your own rules
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