WARNING WARNING WARNING WARNING Brides, if a family member (his or yours) offers you a big chunk of money for the wedding? And tells you there are "no strings attached"? DO NOT BELIEVE IT! DO NOT ACCEPT THE MONEY! Months down the road this duplicitous individual will be instructing you to invite all their cousins and their graduating class (whom you've never met) and hire their favorite band and serve their favorite cocktails and how about a square dance? WARNING WARNING WARNING WARNING